Greetings to you my fellow BETS!
I decided to change my opening greeting because I never know
exactly when I am going to post, or when you all will get around to reading
it. So there we go.
Today is not my birthday, let's just get that out of the way. A week or so ago, I made the comment that I have hundreds of
stories about my kids at school that I want to share. I believe I made the comment that they would
be for “Another Day”. Well, welcome to “Another
Day”. I won’t share all of them of
course, just one for now.
Over the last two years, I have kind of kept myself at an
arm’s length with my students as a whole.
Some kids of course, you connect with quickly, but for the most part I
have tried to shield them from seeing the real me. I’m not sure if this is for them, or if this
is for me. Maybe a bit of both.
This year, I discovered that I have a few “Birthday Buddies”
here at school. I’m not sure why, but
this really got me excited. I love the
fact that I share my birthday with some of the kids! So much fun to be had, now multiplied by the
additional characters!
In learning this, I apparently made it clear as to when my
birthday actually falls. Now this could
have been when I mentioned I had birthday buddies. Or it may have been when a student asked me
directly. Or possibly it was when I would
announce every day, two weeks prior to the date, how many shopping days were
left until said event. Anyway, it doesn’t
really matter how they found out, but they did.
I was really touched when one of my students came to my room
before her class with the bag of goodies you see in the picture. If you can’t see it well, there is a chocolate
bar wrapped in a Dementos wrapper, some truffles with wings added to resemble
Golden Snitches, a bag with a Gryffindor tie on it, an awesome Prefect Badge,
and a wonderful birthday card with Ron, Harry and Hermione on it. Obviously she and I had shared our love for
the Harry Potter series before this date.
What really got me though, was the time and thought that it
took this student to put this together for me.
This was one very special moment for me this year. A couple of other students also got me candy
bars(my students know me), and I think I got a special Doughnut and Coffee in the
morning as well. I also got many, “It’s
your birthday today, Mr. Ringenberg?
Happy Birthday!”, which of course was also cool. But the Harry
Potter Gift bag. Did I ever do any of that for
a teacher? No, of course not. Heck I
probably never even acknowledged my teachers’ birthdays.
My takeaway from this was that I need to be that thoughtful
in preparing for my kids in the morning.
My lesson plans may not thrill them, and my homework won’t score points
for me I am sure. But maybe, if I plan
on being truly present with all of my interactions with each of them, I can
convey a measure of thoughtfulness, as my students do to me. Let’s hope so, huh?
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